How to make your girlfriend happy.
Knowing how to make your girlfriend happy is an important part of maintaining a healthy relationship. All relationships take work, and it is essential that both the man and woman work together to improve each other’s lives.
In today’s video we will cover 10 key points which you can use to not only make your girlfriend happy, but also build a stronger bond to enjoy your lives together.
1. Relaxation
Ladies minds are different to men and it’s important to understand the difference. Often a woman will have more concerns and worries. Helping them to relax will not only make them feel wonderful, but will also help you to bond more with each other.
Take the time to help your girlfriend relax by surprising her and running her a hot bubble bath. To make it very relaxing, light a few candles and perhaps some incense.
You can also give her a spontaneous massage, do some of their chores without asking, or help them to reduce their workload. This will take the edge off.
2. Listen To Her
Allow your girlfriend to blow off steam about her daily problems by asking her how her day has been. If she has had problems at work, or in her life, be sure to listen intently and allow her to speak. Men have a tendency to try to interrupt and fix the problems, even getting angry and frustrated.
Instead, stay calm and allow your girlfriend to share her problems, it is likely that she is looking for someone to listen to her and offer her support, but do not demand how she solve her problems as this may frustrate her. Be gentle and level headed, and ask her if she would like your advice. Then offer it, but allow her to deal with situations in her own way.
Also, encourage her to share stories about her life, family, friends and interests. Take mental notes, you may even get some ideas on how to surprise her in the future.
3. Make Her Laugh
Always leave your girlfriend with a smile on her face. Learn what makes her laugh and repeat these actions whenever you can. Watch comedy movies together. The purpose of life is enjoyment, and it’s important to remember this. Let go of your filters and speak from the heart too.
4. Be Sociable
It is human nature to want to be sociable and meet people. Some of us may be shy, but this does not change the fact that we are at home when we are enjoying ourselves with friends and family. Try to make lasting bonds with the important people in your girlfriend’s life. This will make her very happy, especially if her close ones get along with you.
5. Take Her Out
Make sure you take your girlfriend out on dates at least once every two weeks. This doesn’t have to be expensive. Plan simple days out with walks in nature, or a picnic. Keeping her locked away in your man cave constantly is only going to cause boredom.
6. Curiosity
Always be curious about her life. Have a desire to constantly learn new things about your girlfriend, throughout the course of the relationship. Whether it be 1 month or 50 years, you should always try to learn more about each other. Humans are constantly adapting and changing, and there are always new things to learn.
7. Generosity
This is important not only with your girlfriend but with your entire life. To willingly give and graciously receive is an important concept which will expand your life no end. Making her feel happy by surprising her with gifts, treats and even small acts of kindness will always make you both feel good about the relationship, and life in general.
8. Intimacy
Spending quality time with your loved one - just the two of you is extremely important. You should be able to share with each other thoughts that you perhaps have not shared with anyone else. Creating unique experiences with each other will strengthen your bond. Make her feel that she can be completely open with you, without judgement.
9. Commit
When you make a commitment to your girlfriend, make sure that it is genuine and you are going to stick by your words. Do not make commitments you cannot keep, whether this be planned dates, an engagement, promises or decisions. Going through with what you say shows that you are of high value and with integrity, and will make your girlfriend proud to have such a strong minded lover.
10. Grooming
Keeping yourself well groomed and hygienic at all times is very important. You should keep your beard and hair trimmed to your style of choice. Take regular showers, and never allow yourself to smell of stale body odour. Wear clean clothes. You don’t have to be at the height of fashion, but most women appreciate a well groomed man dressed in smart clothes, such as an ironed shirt and smart jeans. Keeping yourself looking good will make your girlfriend happy to show you off to her friends and family.
Some Final Notes
Remember that communicating your feelings with one another is always one of the most important elements of a healthy relationship. Your girlfriend should also make an effort to make you happy too, and together you will find a balance and unique rhythm that works for you. I wish you the best experiences and adventures with your girlfriend.
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